MondoHomo 2009

If you live near Atlanta or feel like making a road trip later this month, then you must check out this super rad festival. MondoHomo Dirty South 2009 will showcase cutting edge queer music, performance, burlesque, drag, spoken word, arts, crafts, film, video, politics, workshops and much more!

5 days of nonstop queer culture fun, MondoHomo will again be the most OUTRAGEOUS Queer gathering ever to take over Atlanta! How could you miss out on something like that? There’s something for everyone!

Also, Gretchen Phillips will be performing so you definitely want to catch her. If you’re a former riot grrrl or know anything about the movement then you probably know who she is. Basically, dykey radical awesomeness you need to see to believe.

Don’t forget to get in your submissions for the First Ten Days of Summer before it’s too late!

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QueerArt Wednesday

Dion Hitchings is an artist from Saint Louis, Missouri currently living in New Jersey. He entered the corporate world and began a long and successful career as an art director. Then, after a trip to the Kentuck Festival of Arts in Alabama, he realized his desire to get back to painting and drawing and to fulfill his dream of being a full-time artist.

His artwork is inspired by the people he sees and works with, dreams, plants at the nursery, news items, guests on the Jerry Springer show and nature. His work in influenced by artists like Jean Michael Basquait, Aubrey Beardsley, Peter Max, Gustav Klimt and Alan Cober.

Featured here is a piece called Envy the Green Dog which is part of his Seven Deadly Sins series. You can view this series in it’s entirety at dionhitchings.com. Also be sure to check out his be book which is dedicated in part to the late, great Bea Arthur (RIP Dorothy, we’ll miss you).

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“He Whipped My Ass In Tennis….”

Well queeros, I owe you a ramble on Pansy Division: Life in a Gay Rock Band. Off we go.

I didn’t know anything about Pansy Division until I did my pre-film research. Maybe that makes me a bad queer, since they were an integral part of the 90’s Queercore scene… and I didn’t even know what Queercore was until it was mentioned in the movie. Pansy Division, and other cultural activists of the time, expanded the queer scene beyond the synth-bumping, glitter-shimmering gay club environment and made a space for queers in rock. Until we have a steady flow of out queer artists on major labels, there is room to grow - but Pansy Division planted the seed. (Or if I am oblivious to a pre-Queercore movement, Pansy was potent fertilizer in this analogy.)

It honestly is inspiring to see the waves of change that can be created through the simple, yet brave, efforts of self-expression. Jon Ginoli, guitarist/vocalist, started the band in 1991 to “deal with [his] alienation” within the gay community and to forge something positive out of his negative experiences. Quickly joined by bassist/vocalist Chris Freeman (the band has cycled through many lead guitarists and drummers over the past ten years), Jon didn’t have a political agenda or any gritty chip on his shoulder. Instead the band played music for the sake of the music. And let me tell you, the music is pure punk fun! With songs like “My Hippie Dude,” and “He Whipped My Ass In Tennis (Then I Fucked His Ass In Bed),” Pansy brought a new humorous flavor to punk rock. Some songs put a fantastic queer twist on well-known cultural references, like “Bill & Ted’s Homosexual Adventure,” “James Bondage,” and “Smells Like Queer Spirit.” Their out-and-proud attitudes were embraced with pumping fists and they quickly established a following beyond their homebase of San Francisco.

In 1994, Green Day, in the height of their Dookie success, invited Pansy Division on their summer tour. Instead of singing about sucking dick in front of a gay or allied audience, they were performing for those punk rock kids I used to know in high school (and maybe you, too?). They received mixed reviews, as expected, and of course there was the occasional obnoxious douche screaming “Faggot” at the stage. But ever so admirably, Pansy just shouted back, “Damn right we are!” (or something to that extent). They made no apologies, and their brash and beautiful queerness couldn’t be ignored. In the film, the band members recall getting letters from closeted kids scattered across the US. The music was an escape for these kids, even if they had to hide the albums from their parents. Pansy Division became a support system for other queers that felt alienated in their own lives. That, to me, is huge.

It’s no new news that the queer community does not yet have a thriving place in mainstream music. Artists like Hercules And Love Affair (right), Fagget Fairys and Des Ark are bumping in the indie circuit, but there isn’t much of a queer representation in the mainstream aside from The Indigo Girls and Michael Stipe (of REM). And their homosexuality only represents a fraction of the queer community. Like Pansy Division, we have to make ourselves heard… we have to put the queery goodness out into the world so that starved fans can cling to it for salvation. And this can be true for any form of artistic expression or frenzy of pop culture. The more queer we give to the world, the bigger it will grow. The message I took from this film is to BE PROUD OF YR QUEER SELF! You never know who you (yes you) can inspire. Just try it.

This also is a great time to mention thinkBOOM, the other Queero Activity Of The Day. thinkBOOM was overflowing with inspiration and self expression. The group is comprised of mainly queerfolk, but not entirely, and it was really refreshing to encourage such an honest and open artistic connection with other queers/allies. It’s something I don’t get to do that often - and now I really think it’s something I can’t live without. It’s tough to have the gumption to share your work, especially when you’re queer living in a partially anti-queer world. But by keeping our work in the closet, we are not fulfilling our duties as queers. So get to it! And if you need a place to share your work, contact us (us = Be Yr Own Queero) and I’m sure we can work something out…

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Gay Charlotte Film Festival & Full Frame Documentary Film Festival

Two fim festivals will be taking place this week.

Gay Charlotte Film Festival - April 3rd - 5th, 2009

@ the Lesbian & Gay Community Center of Charlotte, 820 Hamilton St., Suite B-11, Charlotte NC

Three days of queer films! What more could you ask for? Check out the line up here.

full frame doc fest

Full Frame Documentary Film Festival - April 2nd - 5th, 2009

Durham NC

This is a huge festival that brings in filmmakers and film buffs from all over the country. There will be 100s of films, panels, discussions and Q & A’s with filmmakers. I’m unsure of the queer films present at the festival this year, but I’m sure there will be some, along with a bunch of queer filmmakers. I’ll be heading up there for work and I just got a brand new video camera, so expect some footage of the fest!

See a list of the films here.

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A Bisexual’s Guide to …

I found this interesting archive of bisexual bloggers online the other day and thought that all you bi guys ‘n gals out there would appreciate some bi-spective literature. Hey I’m bi too…so I’m just as curious , hah. Credible or not, you decide.

This list happened to be compiled by the authors of The Bisexual’s Guide to the Universe : Quips, Tips and Lists for Those Who Go Both Ways biiiiiiiiii Nicole Kristal and Mike Szymanski.

Their website has a section called “Increase your Bi-Q” that highlights topics found in their book, like how the year bisexuality first appeared in the dictionary was in 1892. Or that bisexuals statiscally speaking…

  • 20 percent are in homosexual relationships
  • 30 percent of bisexualis are in hetero relationships
  • 25 percent are in no relationship 10 percent are with a man
  • 10 percent are in multiple relationships of all kinds at the same time
  • 35 percent of bisexuals previously considered themselves gay or lesbian

Check it out and get informed!

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HERE’S A LITTLE BLURP ABOUT www.queer-arts.org

“Since 1996 we’ve produced over 50 exhibitions that suggest the range, depth, and importance of queer artistic expression.

Until the recent advent of Queer Studies, the History of Art has omitted most material of direct relevance to lesbians and gays. Much has been suppressed, much has been lost due to neglect or censorship, and a great deal has simply been overlooked. QAR is expanding the range and depth of knowledge about contemporary and historical queer art, and making this information freely available on our website.

We realize that artistic identity is molded by myriad factors, an amalgam of gender, racial, ethnic and sexual, to name a few. But we also know that honest artistic expression by the queer community plays a role in combatting homophobia and advancing the principles of intellectual integrity.”

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[Flash 9 is required to listen to audio.]

Remember when we brought the Feed the Horse video by Fagget Fairys to your attention? Well, here’s a little treat to brighten up your day. It’s the deeper, dubbier, more dancefloor friendly dub of Feed the Horse. Enjoy!

And don’t forget about the comment contest! When you see the secret phrase you’ll have 24 hours to leave a comment. Each post on beyrownqueero.com has the date and time at the top so you’ll know if you’re still eligible to win. Good luck!

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Cheese Sandwich Film Festival!

On April 1st, 2009 the first ever - one time only - Cheese Sandwich Film Festival will be happening right here in Wilmington, NC. The Cheese Sandwich Film Festival Society will be screening experimental, documentary, narrative, and animated shorts focusing on the sexy cheese sandwich.

What are the stipulations?
Good Question!
1. The film has to be about a cheese sandwich. This can be loose.
2. The film must be creative.
3. The film must be under 3 minutes!!!!

Be Yr Own Queero will be giving the award for the Best LGBTQ Film, so get going Queeros! Other awards will be for Best Documentary, Best Animation, and Fan Favorite, among others.

Check out cheesesandwichfilmfestival.com for more information and updates.


Cheese Sandwich Film Festival Bump from Daniel Moser on Vimeo.

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Film buffs from around the world are still buzzing about this year’s Oscar winners. GLAAD was thrilled about Milk being nominated in eight categories and receiving the Oscar for BEST ORIGINAL SCREENPLAY for screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, and PERFORMANCE BY AN ACTOR IN A LEADING ROLE, to Sean Penn for his role as the openly gay leader Harvey Milk. Both of their acceptance speeches that night received rousing cheers and applause from within the Kodak Theater. But millions of TV viewers missed out on their full speeches because they were censored. Who is responsible? News Corp. It’s the same media company under fire from many organizations for its defamatory political cartoon in The New York Post. Specifically, STAR is an Asian TV satellite company and a News Corp subsidiary. The TV service reaches more than 300 million viewers in 53 countries. Viewers tuning into the recorded awards show found the company had edited out the words “gay” and “lesbian” every time they were said on-stage by the screenwriter or actor.
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Gender? Paradigm! in Chapel Hill Feb 27th

Gender? Paradigm! is an awesome event that will be coming to UNC-Chapel Hill next Friday. The event will include a transformative film, workshop & discussion with artists Joie Rey Jana Lynn Cohen and Stephanie Kinney.

Gender?
Paralleling the fluidity of gender itself, the film weaves participants’ stories, identities, and expressions into a powerful sound and video collage of gender diversity. Gender? questions the gender binary itself, expressing the limitations of the gender binary and lived alternatives. With minimal editing, participants tell their stories with honesty, humor, and a call for personal and cultural transformation.

Paradigm!
Paradigm! is an exploration of gender, power, and privilege. A space for people to talk about gender without stripping it from their other identities. We examine the ways gender relates to sexuality, sex, ancestry, class, age, dis/abilitiy, geography, and faith. We are concerned with the gender and sexuality binaries, dualisms, hierarchies, and boxed in ways of being that don’t reflect peoples’ lives. It is our intention to use peoples’ experiences as a challenge to these dominant paradigms.

Date: Friday, February 27, 2009 
Time: 3:00pm - 5:00pm
Location: Murphey 105; UNC Campus, Chapel Hill, NC

More info / RSVP on Facebook
More info on Joie Rey Jana Lynn Cohen and Stephanie Kinney can be found at filmartgender.com

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Check out this video by Les and Manny from over at Queer Kid of Color. It’s about homophobic lyrics in music. They also have a great video about homos who don’t date bisexuals - I know a lot of us can relate to this sentiment to some degree.

Les and Manny are also super adorable queeros, so definitely take a look at their stuff!

And, of course, don’t forget to help nominate Be Yr Own Queero for a Lezzy Award - Best Feminist/Political blog!

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QueerArt Wednesday

Art is an absorbent, - a tyrant. It demands heart, brain, soul, body, the entireness of its votary. Nothing less will win its highest favor. I wed art. It is my husband – my world – my life-dream – the air I breathe. I know nothing else – feel nothing else – think nothing else. My soul finds in it the most complete satisfaction. I married art …. What could I do with any other husband?”

Rosa Bonheur, born in 1822 in Bordeaux, France, was the daughter of Sophie and Raymond Bonheur. Her father taught drawing and her mother gave piano lessons. Her family made do with a rather small income, and she said they “used to migrate like the birds.” Rosa’s mother died when Rosa was eleven. Her father then sent her, along with her brothers, to a co-educational school. The school was taught by a Jansenist who believed in equal education during a time when it was unusual for girls to attend school at all. Her father was a Saint-Simonian who lived a pseudo-monastic life. They believed in the abolition of the law of inheritance, the enfranchisement of women, and the complete equality of women with men. These liberal views would later have a great influence on Rosa’s political and philosophical views.

Raymond, now a widower with four children, decided to send Rosa to train as a dressmaker although she displayed a certain gift for art. Rosa despised the boarding school and sought pleasure in drawing and painting in her father’s studio while he was away during the day. When Rosa was thirteen Raymond found her painting a bunch of cherries and, delighted with her natural talent, ended her formal education and sent her to art school. During her training she went to the Louvre to copy masterpieces. She was taunted by fellow students and visitors because she was a girl pursuing a man’s profession.

As a teenager Rosa meet her beloved Nathalie Micas. The Micases encouraged Rosa to rent her own studio and helped her find commissions. On his deathbed, Nathalie’s father arranged a union between his daughter and Rosa, telling Raymond Bonheur: “Let our two children stay together always. You see how much they love each other. Rosa needs Nathalie to love and protect her. Come, children, I want to give you my blessing!” He then put his hands on the girls’ heads, blessed them, and kissed them. Shortly after his death Nathalie, her mother, and Rosa all moved in together.

During this time Rosa began to visit a horse market to make preliminary sketches and studies for a painting which would later become her masterpiece. The atmosphere of the horse market was a dangerous one for women, so Rosa wore men’s attire which allowed her to gain access to the market while also facilitating her work. After eighteen months of preliminary study she began work on The Horse Fair.

Rosa submitted this monumental piece to the Salon of 1853. At this time women painters were confined to painting subjects within the domestic sphere – portraits and still lifes. Not only had Rosa painted a masculine subject, but she had created a massive piece that no other animalier had yet attempted. The Horse Fair is over eight feet tall by sixteen feet wide, and the horses are two-thirds life-size. The Salon at this time declared her ’hors de concours’ or exempt from having to submit future entries to the jury. After her success with this piece at the Salon, Rosa offered the painting to Bordeaux, her native city, for 12,000 francs. They declined saying that such a sum was too much for a painting by a woman. Soon after, her painting was bought for 40,000 francs by an art dealer. Nathalie had arranged the sale and Rosa was amazed to find that her painting had brought so much money.

In 1860 Rosa, Nathalie, and Mme Micas moved to By in the Forest of Fontainebleau. This move was partly at the request of the will left by Rosa’s father. He asked they promise to stay together, even requesting that the first to die should leave her estate to the survivor. Mme Micas managed the household while Rosa worked in the atelier she had built onto the chateau. Nathalie was well-educated and showed talent in painting, literature, and even mechanics. She also studied medicine and surgery and took care of the animals Rosa kept on their farm for her studies and paintings.

At By, Rosa wore pants and a smock and sported a short haircut. This mode of dress allowed her to work freely in her studio and on her farm. It was, during that era, scandalous for a woman to wear pants, but Rosa insisted on doing as she wished - which included smoking cigars and riding her horse astride.

In 1865 Rosa was presented with the Legion of Honor and became the first woman of France to receive this renowned award. She continued painting until 1889 when Nathalie died. Eventually, she forced herself to work again and soon began a relationship with the American artist Anna Elizabeth Klumpke. Rosa rewrote her will and left Anna the majority of her estate. She said that Anna had given up her own career in order to stay with Rosa out of sincere affection. In 1899 Rosa died after a few days of illness. She is buried with Nathalie, Mme Micas, and Anna in Paris with the inscription “L’Amitie est une affection divine” on her tomb.

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Colonizing Queer America

Recently I’ve been planning a super awesome summer getaway to the West Coast for a visit and it got me thinking about why I had such a burning desire to go explore the Pacific NW. Other than the beautiful sites and outdoorsy lifestyle, we all know the real reason why I want to check out the lovely Portland and San Francisco. The queer meter shakes the Richter scale!

I know Wilmington, NC doesn’t come to mind when trying to find a hip, alternative queer community. But we’re definitely queer over here too! I remember telling a queer acquaintance of mine about how I was getting ready to make my move down to the Carolinas from Washington DC and she, having previously lived in Boston, was not convinced. Apparently North Carolina’s queer meter is shot.

When we have these widely recognized “queer cities” across the US, it’s easier to flock to a setting that already has a strong community, rather than build one up. Why does San Francisco have to be a queer mecca? Or for that matter, any densely populated area like Los Angeles, New York City, Seattle, Atlanta, Boston, Minneapolis, etc. that tend to have a higher percentage of LGTBQ identified adults. I’m just questioning the modern queer landscape of America.

We shouldn’t have to feel like there are only certain cities or areas to go and be exclusively queer. We should be able to feel comfortable and have strong inclusive communities in any town across the US. It’s not like the queer lifestyle only exists in these urban areas. And sure, these larger cities garner a reputation for being liberal and yes, the acceptance level is higher but there still is a struggle to be openly queer across the US.

Why can’t Wilmington, NC be a mecca for queers? I feel that regardless of the town you live in, we all should be able to have accepting and openly queer communities. Granted, not everyone is tolerant or accepting, especially in the Carolinas.

So how can we build up a queer community in a positve way? I suggest, that we all do some queer colonizing. A little bit of urban planning in your own neighborhood. Think about it. What if everyone you knew who was queer identified (questioning or in the closet too!) put up a rainbow flag in their neighborhood? How many flags would we see across America? How much more welcomed would one feel? It’s not imperialism I’m talking about here, it’s colonizing the queer America that already exists on the outskirts.

If we share our stories and show others what it’s like to be queer in America, we can help educate and offset the misconstrued queer American lifestyle. Together, we can build up the smaller LGTBQ communities that the majority of us already live in, or are thinking about leaving. I encourage larger queer communities to reach out to smaller ones and make rainbow bridges, because together we are stronger. Just because Wilmington’s scene isn’t that flaming yet, doesn’t mean it couldn’t happen. San Francisco didn’t become queer overnight. And yes, I will still go visit those big ole queer cities…but I also want to come home to a strong queer community right here in the Carolinas.

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New dykes + fags podcast!

Hey, queeros! Check out episode 2 of our dykes + fags podcast!



01. electrelane - on parade
02. fischerspooner - never win
03. css - alala
04. the smiths - this charming man
05. the blow - the love that i crave
06. lesley gore - sometimes i wish i were a boy

(background music: matmos - tract for valerie solanas)

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this show is so gay podcast

I’ve started listening to the “This show is so gay” podcast hosted by Ken & Becca out of Brattleboro, Vermont. The back & forth commentary between Ken & Becca is highly entertaining as they discuss important current events that affect the LGBTQ community. Each episode features a special guest and music is played intermittently through out the show. If you want to keep up with the latest in LGBTQ related news, this podcast is perfect to listen to if you don’t have time to catch up with all your favorite blogs and RSS feeds.

We’ll be posting a link to each new episode every week. This week’s episode features Evan Wolfson from Freedom to Marry.

evan wolfson freedom to marry this show is so gay podcast

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